Self-Candids

Watching an episode of Seinfeld is a shocker. So o-l-d and out-of-date, the show is a freeze frame of the era before technology. Indeed, no cell phones, make the sit-com dust bin memory fodder. Oh, this is not a bad thing... just think of I Love Lucy, The Honeymooners, Alice and the rest. Just because the situation changes does not make the comedy any less hilarious.

Some people think a cell phone is a portable phone. Ha-ha on that. If anything, the 2012 smart phone offerings are anything but phones. For many smart users, phone calling and talking is the thing they least do with with it. Just consider the options of internet access, apps, photographing, texting, video ability, music and ....

In this vein, then, the point now is to promote the practice of image taking and sending. Moreover, the position is further pushed to relationships. Here it is, once a week people in relationships should send a cool or sexy self image to others with whom they share a relationship. While the mind races to the sext, any offering suits the requirement. No matter the quality or composition!

Seeing another person is a whole lot different than talking with them. Consider the pathway of learning by lecture versus lecture with power point versus a silent image/video. Without a doubt, the image is the most powerful impacter to the brain. Consequently, call your hottie all you want, but if impression and relationship maintenance is desired, send a snap.

The first image is a personal candid of Heather Morris. No words needed. If this were a wife or friend, imagine receiving it. Betcha couldn't wait to see her later... Point made.

Also, picture sending and receiving allows the users to explore their own sexuality in an edge expanding way. Texting asking to see a picture of "your nipple" is less risky not in person. The potential for rejection is unaltered but the actual hurt is lessened. Moreover, the requestee is doubtlessly flattered by such an idea, even if "no" is the answer. Later the denial will be salved with extra sauce...

OK, then, have some fun. Sure to be hard in the beginning, but once the reticence to self shoot is overcome, a whole new world is opened. Surely the future will offer better and beyond imagination possibilities, but for now, carpe diem! Oh, if you wanna send a snap here for practice, go ahead and I'll put you on the blog (if you want)...

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